Burnout and Anxiety: Boundaries, Social Media, and the Future of Mental Health (with a Psychologist + Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner) Samantha Scherzinger and Lizette Aguirre

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Why does burnout feel different than it used to?

In this episode of The Inner Script, Stephanie Baubie, NP sits down with two of her close friends and fellow clinicians, Samantha Scherzinger (psychiatric nurse practitioner) and Dr. Lizette Aguirre (clinical psychologist), for an honest, unfiltered conversation about burnout, boundaries, and what has genuinely shifted in mental health since COVID.

Together, they dig into why so many people feel more exhausted and less resilient than they used to, even when nothing "traumatic" is happening in their day-to-day lives. They talk about the toll of work-from-home availability creep, why toxic productivity culture keeps burnout hidden in plain sight, and the early physical warning signs, like muscle tension, headaches, and gut issues, that show up long before someone feels emotionally "done."

The conversation also moves into social media and mental health, including how constant access to health information, toxic positivity, and "here's what your doctor isn't telling you" content is quietly eroding trust in the healthcare system. And in one of the episode's most eye-opening sections, Samantha and Lizette discuss what they believe the next mental health crisis will be: the psychological impact of AI, from AI-generated influencers to parasocial relationships with chatbots to early concerns about AI psychosis.

Whether you're feeling stretched thin at work, questioning your relationship with social media, or simply wondering why rest doesn't seem to help anymore, this episode offers a grounded, clinician-level perspective on what's really going on and what actually helps.

This episode is for you if…

  • You feel exhausted, overstimulated, or like your nervous system has less capacity than it used to.

  • You're navigating workplace burnout, blurred work-from-home boundaries, or a toxic productivity culture.

  • You feel overwhelmed by social media health advice, misinformation, or distrust in the healthcare system.


Episode Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
00:17 Meet the Guests
03:15 Mental Health Since COVID
06:10 Resilience vs Exhaustion
10:43 Burnout and Workplace Culture
16:19 Physical Signs of Burnout
21:35 Social Media and Misinformation
23:17 Distrust in Healthcare
43:27 AI and Mental Health
48:44 Rewiring Cultural Beliefs



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If this episode hit close to home, The Burnout Reset Blueprint is a practical, downloadable guide to help you rebuild capacity when rest alone isn't working, with reflection prompts, a burnout self-audit, and small daily practices pulled directly from this conversation. Download it here: Patreon companion resource

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Meet Samantha Scherzinger

Samantha Scherzinger is a board-certified psychiatric-mental health nurse practitioner dedicated to helping clients navigate their mental health journeys with compassion and expertise. She graduated first in her class from Vanderbilt University's Master of Science in Nursing program, and also holds a bachelor's degree from Vanderbilt in Child Development and Sociology. Samantha brings a broad range of clinical experience, having worked in both community mental health and inpatient behavioral health settings. She currently practices at Helyx Health, where she provides diagnostic evaluations and medication management for her clients, drawing on her deep clinical background to deliver thoughtful, individualized care. Website: https://helyxhealth.org/samantha-scherzinger

Samantha  at  Helyx Health


Meet Lizette Aguirre

Dr. Lizette Aguirre (she/her) is a California licensed clinical psychologist with over a decade of experience supporting adults through anxiety, depression, trauma, identity exploration, and life transitions. She earned her doctorate through the PGSP-Stanford PsyD Consortium and integrates evidence-based approaches including EMDR, CBT, exposure therapies, ACT, and mindfulness. Dr. Aguirre works with high-achieving professionals, students, neurodivergent adults, LGBTQIA+ individuals, caretakers, and first-generation immigrants, offering therapy in both English and Spanish. She also serves as adjunct clinical faculty at Stanford School of Medicine and co-founded a postdoctoral training program, with a genuine passion for mentoring developing clinicians. Website: https://www.drlizaguirre.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizette-aguirre-584905134/

Lizette’s Website & Lizette’s LinkedIn


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Meet Your Host

Stephanie Baubie, NP is an integrative nurse practitioner and the host of The Inner Script Podcast, where she explores the deeper stories behind health, healing, identity, and transformation. Through a blend of functional medicine, nervous system awareness, emotional insight, and honest conversation, Stephanie helps women better understand their bodies while questioning the narratives they’ve inherited about wellness, worth, and what it means to truly feel well.

On The Inner Script, Stephanie sits down with physicians, founders, thought leaders, and experts in women’s health, while also sharing solo reflections on the transitions and inner shifts that shape our lives.

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FAQs

What are the early physical signs of burnout?

In this episode of The Inner Script, Dr. Lizette Aguirre explains that burnout often shows up in the body before it shows up emotionally. Common physical signs include muscle tension, jaw clenching, headaches, digestive issues, poor sleep, and getting sick more frequently. Emotional signs like irritability, detachment, and cynicism tend to appear later, which means many people are already deep into burnout by the time they recognize it.

Is resilience something you either have or don't have?

No. Samantha Scherzinger and Dr. Lizette Aguirre both explain on this episode of The Inner Script that resilience is not a fixed trait, it's adaptive and shaped by the duration and intensity of stress, access to support, and opportunities for recovery. They note that chronic, prolonged stress, like the kind many people experienced during and after COVID, can slowly erode resilience over time, even in people who are naturally high functioning.

Why does working from home make burnout worse?

Dr. Lizette Aguirre discusses how remote work has blurred the line between being at work and being available for work, creating pressure to answer emails or calls outside of normal hours. Combined with a cultural obsession with productivity and output, this "always on" availability is discussed as a major driver of burnout in this episode of The Inner Script.

Can medication alone fix burnout?

No. Samantha Scherzinger, a psychiatric nurse practitioner, explains on this episode that while medications like SSRIs can be genuinely helpful and even life changing tools, they are not a replacement for boundaries, rest, or lifestyle changes. She shares that many people want "a pill for burnout," but without addressing sleep, workload, and recovery, medication alone provides limited relief.

What is toxic positivity and why is it harmful?

Dr. Lizette Aguirre describes toxic positivity as a cultural overemphasis on being happy and maintaining a positive mindset at all times, even when that isn't realistic or healthy. On this episode, she explains that unpleasant emotions like sadness, anxiety, and anger are normal and biologically necessary, and that discouraging them can set people up to feel like something is wrong with them when they naturally arise.

How is social media affecting mental health and trust in healthcare?

Samantha Scherzinger and Dr. Lizette Aguirre discuss how social media content that claims to reveal "what your doctor isn't telling you" has contributed to growing distrust in clinicians and the healthcare system. They also talk about how constant stimulation and frictionless access to information have made it harder for people to tolerate uncertainty, sit with discomfort, or trust a gradual, trial-and-error treatment process.

What do mental health professionals think AI will mean for future mental health?

In this episode, Samantha Scherzinger shares that she believes AI will play a major role in the next mental health crisis, pointing to AI-generated influencers, parasocial relationships with chatbots, growing concerns about AI psychosis, and ongoing lawsuits related to AI platforms and vulnerable users, including minors. She and Dr. Lizette Aguirre discuss why the constant availability and validation offered by AI can be especially risky for people who already struggle with connection or judgment.

Disclaimer

Everything shared in this episode is for educational purposes and personal reflection only. It is not medical advice. Always work with your own healthcare provider for individual care.

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Podcast production by Jamie Brooke.

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